Book Review : WISDOM SERIES-THE FOUR AGREEMENTS By Christian Samuel J.S (Part 1)
BERITA LAINNYA - 21 April 2025
Have you ever felt life gets really complicated with unnecessary drama or self-doubt? The many things happening simultaneously in our lives might make you feel this way. Don Miguel Ruiz’s “The Four Agreements” offers a simple but powerful guide to living a happy and fulfilling life. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, this book outlines four principles that can transform how we think, act, and relate to others. Let’s explore these agreements and how we can make them a part of our daily lives.
- The First Agreement: Be Impeccable With Your Word
The first agreement is about how to use our words wisely. Being “impeccable” means speaking with honesty, kindness, and intention. Words are powerful, they can build others up or tear them down. How we speak and talk to someone is usually the difference between having a great relationship into making someone mad at you. Realizing this power, it’s important that we can master this aspect in our lives. For teens, this might mean avoiding gossip, speaking truthfully to friends and family, and even being mindful of your self-talk. Next time you’re tempted to criticize yourself or someone else, pause and choose words that reflect kindness instead of hatred. From the first agreement, these next three are the aspects that’ll make your life better, but we cannot do any of it if we still can’t be impeccable with our words.
- The Second Agreement: Don’t Take Anything Personally
The second agreement is about not taking anything personally, whether it’s people’s thoughts, comments, or judgment over you. Usually, people’s actions and words often reflect their own struggles and insecurities, not yours. This agreement reminds us not to let others’ opinions control our emotions. For example, if someone makes a hurtful comment, remember it’s more about them than it is about you. By letting go of the need for approval, you can stay confident and true to yourself.
- The Third Agreement: Don’t Make Assumptions
The third agreement is how we don’t make assumptions about something or someone. We often jump to conclusions without knowing the full story. This agreement encourages clear communication instead of assuming what others think or feel. If a friend seems distant, don’t assume they’re mad at you, but just ask. Learning to clarify information instead of assuming can prevent misunderstandings and build stronger relationships.
- The Fourth Agreement: Always Do Your Best
The fourth agreement is how we always do our best every single day. Your best will look different depending on the situation. While some days you’ll be full of energy, other days you might feel tired. This agreement isn’t about perfection in doing things, but it’s all about giving your full effort in whatever you do. Whether it’s studying for a test or helping out a friend, doing your best helps you stay proud of your efforts, no matter what the outcome is.
By following these four agreements, we can simplify our lives and improve ourselves every single day. Start small by focusing on one agreement at a time, and watch how our mindset and interactions change for the better. Life can be challenging, but with these principles, we can have the tools to handle anything with confidence and have a happier life overall. God Bless You!
Sources:
“The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz (1997)
https://booksthatslay.com/the-4-agreements-summary/
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